All that excitement will definitely pay off the next time you see each other face-to-face — or screen-to-screen. See something while searching on your own that turns you on a little extra?Drop a link in a message to your partner and add, "This is what I want you to do to me next time." Or mix up your next Skype call by using the screen-sharing feature to watch it together.With the We Connect app, if a partner with a vagina is wearing the toy, their lover can control the vibrations from their smart phone using the app, no matter how far away they are. After you've revealed your fantasies to one another, it's time to act them out.
Thanks to video chat applications like Skype, you can now see one another — which means that you can get sexy with your partner over Wi-Fi, even if it's going to be a long time until you can get busy in real life.
Once you know what excites you, you can bring those fantasies into your Skype sex to spice things up. After you've made a list of what turns you on, share it with your partner over a Skype call. "[It’s like] exercising a whole new muscle, if you will.”Bringing up your kinks can be scary, but just relax and be yourself.
A list is a useful tool, as you can literally just read off of it.
If you're experiencing repeated video connection issues, Singh suggests opting for simple Skype chat rather than video, since it requires less bandwidth (and can be just as erotic).
Also, if you're nervous about having your face on camera during dirty talk, you may feel more comfortable with sending text messages anyway. Are you in a long-distance relationship with someone who perhaps misses penetrative sex?